Noted. And to be clear, I'm not looking to provoke, or 'project' (not sure what u mean by that, tbh). But the 'mental load' issue is CONSTANTLY invoked, mostly by married women, and it's just balderdash. IOW, a myth...another one that can never be falsified so it's gains traction. And then we wonder why we can't have nice things. Anyway, hope u feel better soon.
Noted. And to be clear, I'm not looking to provoke, or 'project' (not sure what u mean by that, tbh). But the 'mental load' issue is CONSTANTLY invoked, mostly by married women, and it's just balderdash. IOW, a myth...another one that can never be falsified so it's gains traction. And then we wonder why we can't have nice things. Anyway, hope u feel better soon.
Noted. And to be clear, I'm not looking to provoke, or 'project' (not sure what u mean by that, tbh). But the 'mental load' issue is CONSTANTLY invoked, mostly by married women, and it's just balderdash. IOW, a myth...another one that can never be falsified so it's gains traction. And then we wonder why we can't have nice things. Anyway, hope u feel better soon.
I have seriously never encountered the term "mental load" WRT housework. Again, perhaps it's a generational divide.